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Honoring Boundaries: An Attuned Approach to Equine Therapy

Writer's picture: Barbara IsherwoodBarbara Isherwood

Updated: Oct 28, 2024

Harmony Barn Embodied Herd Therapy is a unique therapeutic approach that blends somatic awareness with the natural dynamics of a horse herd to promote emotional and psychological healing. This form of therapy encourages clients to become "embodied," fostering a deep awareness of their physical sensations, emotions, and bodily experiences. It combines somatic practices with the horses’ unique nonverbal communication, which is sensitive to subtle shifts in energy and body language.


The essence of Embodied Herd Therapy lies in engaging with the herd from a distance, allowing clients to connect with the horses' energy and natural rhythms without imposing human expectations. This respectful observation creates a safe environment for trauma survivors to explore their boundaries, enhance self-regulation, and develop body awareness. The horses, living together in a herd, model clear communication and social dynamics, offering valuable insights into healthy relationships and emotional expression.


As clients observe the herd, they learn to listen to their bodies and navigate their emotional landscapes, cultivating a sense of safety. They also gain insight and connection with the Harmony Herd through hearing the individual stories of the horses, discovering their unique personalities and understanding how horses coexist and experience the world around them. This deepened connection enhances the therapeutic process, allowing clients to see the horses as complex beings with their own narratives and ways of relating.


This therapy underscores the importance of respecting boundaries—both personal and those of the horses—while fostering healing through connection, presence, and attunement to nature.  At Harmony Barn, we believe in a hands-off approach that honors the horses’ natural rhythms. We do not ride, directly interact with, or enter their space; instead, we observe from a distance, which aligns with our core values—essential not only for the horses but also for the individuals we support, particularly those who have experienced trauma.


Trauma often involves boundary violations—emotional, physical, or psychological. Many people who have endured traumatic events have had their autonomy stripped away, treated as objects, or silenced. Similarly, human-horse interactions can sometimes reflect a lack of respect for the horse's individuality, focusing more on what the horse can do for us rather than who they are.


At Harmony Barn, we adopt a different perspective. Our team practices connected and attuned communication with the Harmony Herd daily, resulting in a well-balanced and trusting environment. We listen to and speak the language of the horses, honoring their needs and individuality. This ongoing practice shapes our therapeutic approach, ensuring alignment with our guiding principles.


We view horses as individuals with their own social structures and needs. Instead of expecting performance or outcomes, we offer our presence and respect, modeling the healthy relationships we wish to cultivate in our lives. For our clients, this approach conveys a powerful message: by respecting the horses’ space, we affirm their boundaries. For those whose boundaries have been violated in the past, this can be a profoundly healing experience, demonstrating what trust-based relationships look like.


Connection with the horses doesn’t require physical touch. Instead, we engage with them energetically—watching, listening, and attuning ourselves to their presence. By becoming part of the herd’s energetic field, we foster a tangible sense of safety for our clients. This way of relating mirrors the healing journey for trauma survivors, allowing clients to observe the horses without pressure or expectation. In this space, they begin to rediscover their boundaries and self-worth.


Ultimately, the Harmony Herd teaches us that deep connections can exist without demands. They provide a rare gift simply by being themselves, reminding us of our intrinsic value and demonstrating that true safety is found in relationships rooted in respect and trust. By sharing their stories and insights, the horses guide clients toward healing, fostering a deeper understanding of both their own experiences and the beauty of authentic connection.

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